Coping with Overwhelm During A Move

I understand that people with ADHD have symptoms that they can't help, however it's not an excuse for consistent disrespect. You can have a mental illness but be aware of how it affects your behavior and relationships. At some point people have to accept that there is a difference between experiencing the symptoms and making excuses for them. Self awareness is important

I am curious, does the struggle get less when you get a formal diagnosis. I am asking because I am wondering if I need to retry somewhere else or just be content with my current diagnosis of social anxiety from the VA.